Of course all cases are different. There's a tendency to think that every loss is personal, every gain is taken for granted. It may be that the benefit may be that future healthcare costs less. You might get an ambulance in time to save your life, rather than lie on the floor in agony for hours. Poor children might not be so hungry that they don't sell your kids drugs. That sort of thing.
There's a balance to be struck. There's fuck all point having an extra 7K when the fascist project is just plotting new ways to rinse you of it with their business partners through deregulated price gouging and the suchlike.
You are either persuaded by the benefits of society, or you are not. Nobody in their right mind could argue that it has sufficient social capital and services currently. There is no alternative than to raise the capital from somewhere and what seems to be largely uncommentated on is that the vast majority is through borrowing and stimulated growth.
Brexshitting is estimated by some to have cost us 140 billion alone, to date.