• 21 Aug 2023, 4:55 p.m.

    A big part of the value/cost of players is the monetisation of the elevation of them as icons. Anyone who thinks that Messi went to paris saint german for the wages that he did, because he was at the time playing the best football in the world, is an idiot.

    We can all agree that Messi is the best, we can ballon d'or him, we can drool over every touch...the fact that he wasn't anything like the player that people seemed to think that he was, for years, is not the point. Never mind the facts, feel the story....but the legend had been built, the iconography was there for people to gather around. Watch Messi, feel Messi, join the tribe who loves Messi. The bigger the tribe, the bigger the money. Put some other chaps around him to do the running, and pay them handsomely to be his bag man.

    So the removal of the prospect of monetising the iconography has completely slaughtered Greenwoods ultimate earning potential...there will be no corporate sponsors, no penetrating new markets based on the name and reputation. It will just be a footballing income from now.

    Which will be pretty good....and there will be interest. Let's not forget, we are dealing with an innocent man who might have just made a prank film and social media post with his partner, for the lols, for all we know. Big mistake, costly mistake.

    He's now in the value bin, with the gingers.

  • 21 Aug 2023, 9:26 p.m.

    P.S. this was why he won't go to Saudi. They want the look... as much as the footballer. Bring me clicks, not critical scrutiny.

  • 22 Aug 2023, 2:53 p.m.

    I see that, as is consistent with the plan, we are being encouraged to focus on banishing an individual from sight, rather than fixing the problems.

    Just to be clear. If you are happily engaging in pursuing a witchhunt against an individual, who may or not be guilty of something, rather than seeking to provide viable redress and support to all victims. If this is not a trigger that makes you determined to fight for a timely working justice system, accessible to all. If it does not cause you to have concerns over being invited to give your opinions over something that you can't reasonably judge, and to feel satisfied having meted out consequences by instrument of social media consensus.

    Then you and your society are not civilised, and you are not safe, and nor are you free.

  • 22 Aug 2023, 3:40 p.m.

    Are we? By who? What problems should we be fixing, and how?

    Who is doing this? How should one be "provid[ing] viable redress and support to all victims"? How are you doing it?

    Again, how does one do this? How are you doing it?

    In what way has that happened? What alternative course would you like to see things follow?

    I feel like you're far better at observing perceived problems, than providing viable solutions. I'm not even necessarily saying you're wrong, just that your observations are limited in value if you're neither acting on them nor providing others with actions that they could take. Glib suggestions such as "fight for a timely working justice system" are functionally useless, particularly if you aren't informing people how you are leading that particular charge or supporting those who are in any way other than as a theoretical cheerleader.

  • 22 Aug 2023, 4:31 p.m.

    This line disturbs me. Why in God's name would anybody make a prank film like that? Are Snuff videos for laughs too?

    And where was it said that he was playing a prank?

    I know you are trying to do point/counter point but are we as individuals and as society that dozy? Do you think that Mason was aware that he was being filmed?

    My wife is a victim of sexual abuse. The difference is that she was very young and still finds it difficult to process what happened. In fact so much that she refuses therapy and holds the line that she was the one who seduced the 46 year old man when she was 10/11 years old. Abuse does terrible things to victims. There are coping mechanisms. There are decisions and disassociations that happen to help continue your life. yes, his girlfriend withdrew the complaint, but why did she feel the need to film one of the encounters to start with. Was it a set up? If so why he is she with him or him with her? Is it more likely that she would forgive him rather than him forgive her for trying to trap him?

    I guess we will never know. I understand Tricky you are disturbed by the court of public opinion ,(something we are discussing here), (see also Johnny Depp/Amber Heard bollocks) but it is rather telling that some of Manchester Utd's staff have openly said they are against his full re-instatement. I think I am more likely to see the reaction of people who know him rather than social media...

    Anyway, I find aggressive behaviour against Women abhorrent. I don't understand anyone who would sexually attack anyone. I just don't. Let alone stray into violence. Even whilst drunk I have never felt the urge to grab women against their will.. Maybe I am in the minority.

    Maybe I am straying from your point but certainly if I see behaviour from men towards women that seem threatening I have interjected. Maybe society needs to work on that micro scale. Dunno.

    As for the person who did what they did to my wife and others... Like Simon I have been asked by a therapist what I would do if I ever met the man. (My wife during our marriage actually went covertly to see him in Los Angeles which I found very very disturbing... ). I said to said therapist without even a blink of the eye that I would kill the man. I honestly believe that to this day I would. The damage he has done... Perhaps this is too personal for me but people get away with terrible things and they shouldn't. Maybe because Mason greenwood was in the public eye he didn't...

    Hard to know.

    Chicago: Trying to articulate.

  • 22 Aug 2023, 6:55 p.m.

    I have NOT seen the video or heard the recordings, or whatever the evidence that's been doing the rounds on the internet about this case, so this is a genuine question not me trying to defend him because I have no idea. But how sure is everyone who has seen/heard whatever there is that they were not playing a kink game, and then the recording has been released in anger in an argument afterwards? 

    'Consensual non-consensual' is not a popular kink but it is a recognised one. There are women out there who, for whatever reason, fantasise about being r*ped, about having that experience and even being hit during the process. And there are men out there who fantasise about doing it. 
    It is usually well planned in advance, with a safeword (because clearly "no" and "stop" will not work during the scene) and often involves real hitting that leaves bruises. 

    I have (unfortunately, and not something I would do again because it totally triggered some very bad memories for me) actually been a photographer hired to shoot a scene like this and it was disturbing and brutal!

    I only ask because the only quote I have heard from one of these recordings (where he is telling her to put her legs up, and says he does not care what she wants/doesn't want) and the fact that the club said there were in fact other reasons that explain those recordings makes me wonder if that was a part of it?
    I do doubt it, and think the most obvious answer is usually the right answer .. However, I had to wonder and try to keep an open mind when I have not seen the evidence so can not form my own opinion.

  • 22 Aug 2023, 7:08 p.m.

    By the media whose fixation is on the outcome in regard to one particular case, on a superficial level. They invite the debate at that level, and people acquiesce. There is no, as I think there should be, debate on the role the dismemberment of the justice system, and the lack of status and support for the vulnerable (which includes women in our society), that substantially contributes to that. We are a society that isn't a society, that is driven by gesture, division, and complacency. We stumble from individual instances of dysfunction lending our feels to the world about it, and totally fail to even mention the cause and what we actually want in regard to that.

    Everyone who is engaging in an opinion on the latest disaster, without choosing a democratic course to address the actual source of the problem is doing this.

    I am pointing it out to you, and to other people, so that you can think about it. I am exercising my role in the democratic process to advocate for social solutions to societies problems, rather than the crass notion that individual responsibility is any level of solution for people who do not have the luxury of financial or social self determination. And I'm not just looking at individual cases of the consequences of that and saying, "oh, that's terrible that is, I know what should be done with them, based on my deep knowledge of the case from twitter".

    I have previously done work with women shelters, and rape crisis centres (specific to this particular issue - you may recall me mentioning that I knew the former leader of the opposition from this work). I currently assist in mentoring some young people from disadvantaged backgrounds - such that they (hopefully) feel that they have a stake in society, and an avenue to gain help and support. I attempt to get people to consider the sort of society that they want to be a part of.

    You support, and vote, and campaign, or whatever the level of your involvement, for representation and government that actually stands for social justice and law and order, rather than just says that they do. I am here, discussing it with you, and attempting to make the argument that it is a widely important thing that needs to inform peoples values and social behaviour. Rather than just be satisfied with pontificating an opinion.

    It's happened because significant financial interests have invested in creating division, inequality, and oppression, in order to propagate the behaviours that maintain their financial interest. We, the people, have been complacent over the advances that we have made as a society, and in the face of a bit of marketing turned supine and bent over and taken it. I would like us the people, to actually discuss the sort of society that we want to be a part of, and use our superior numbers to assert that through our representation and what we demand of OUR governments.

    Well of course I am, I'm good at seeing things, but not a brilliant worker drone. That's why like minded members of society need to bring together their different aptitudes and collectivise to bring a power that exceeds that of the individual. Which is why the forces against a strong and fair society work in the opposite direction. I lack sufficient weight of numbers to even assert my values on my village, never mind society wide. I am insufficiently armed to overcome the state armed forces. But I can encourage you to consider collectively exercising the power that we have together, to attempt to assert the sort of values that people pretend that they really want. In tweets.

    What do you suggest? Just keep voting for the tories, because the job they have left us to do is too big? Just let them defund our instruments of redress and fairness, and keep the tweet count high, so that we can feel better about ourselves because we can't mentally confront our abject capitulation?

    I am not a satisfactory candidate for public office. I lack sufficient firepower to overcome the highly weaponised state controlled forces deployed against us. We are going to have to trojan horse them through the ballot box. You think it's nothing to try to encourage people to think about the sort of values that they actually want to have, and how they go about doing that....and maybe one or two of them might tick a different box as a result. I don't, because I believe in both the advantages of a strong, fair and prosperous society, and achieving that democratically through consent.

    Ask yourself this:

    If this individual is unequivocally guilty of the behaviours that you believe, why are we as a society unable to bring them to justice, or protect the victim?

    Why are you so overcome by the experience and feeling that such behaviour engenders in you, that you can't see beyond a desire for specific outcomes against this one individual? (I thought it interesting when noodle suggested better x guilty people go free, than one innocent person suffer inappropriate justice - apart from in this case, obvs)

    I do not believe that these things are an accident. To me there are very clear steps being taken to ensure that's what you think, and that's how you behave, and keep you trying to put out those little fires, and not look at the cunts pouring petrol, and chucking matches.

    If your water tank springs a leak, you don't just get to work wiping your floor with a mop. You plug the hole, and turn off the water supply, before you are under water. Then you tidy up.

  • 22 Aug 2023, 7:36 p.m.

    I don't think it's necessarily nothing, although I do think that this particular microcosm of society is likely a less useful one to aim such direction at. In part because most likely already think and vote the way you would wish them to, and in part because those that don't are likely too old and bloody minded to change direction now.

  • 22 Aug 2023, 9:07 p.m.

    Tricky, you grabbed one of my quotes, shortened it and therefore subverted it. I attributed it to your assertion that is could have been a video released as a prank or for fun. Did you read the rest of what I wrote or grabbed a snap shot to try and press home a point.

    I am asking not because I am arguing but I am genuinely interested in how you interpreted my post.

  • 23 Aug 2023, 12:32 a.m.

    No, I just quoted the opening, to indicate that I was addressing the post.

    Many of us, maybe most of us, have similar stories to tell of women that we have been close to ( or we haven't been that close to women, and had the real truth from them). My point was, are we lashing out at a conveniently provided piñata for our feelings, or are we actually going to try and do something to address the real issue? Women, and other sections of society, are not safe, they do not have equal opportunity, they do not have access to support and redress or justice.

    Mason Greenwood not playing for a football club in direct sight does not change the dial on that, in either direction, one iota.

    I have read your post very carefully. It seems to me that you have projected your values, experience, and feelings, onto a situation that you cannot have definitive knowledge of the actuality of, as a release for your anger and frustration. If you are open to considering it there are possible alternative explanations in this thread. I am absolutely sure that I have no idea of what actually happened. I am very sure that many of the people who are absolutely certain, are completely wrong (as we all are, about most things, most of the time, as I am carefully trying to repeatedly explain).

    What would be worse is if it really was so definitively clear cut, and we as a society had completely failed to do anything substantively about that. Think about all the other victims without press interest. Without any form of societal support. With no money. With nobody to turn to. With no future partner to protect and nurture them. But you can feel the warm and fuzzies because you made Mason Greenwood have to go and play for Milan? Job done, eh?

    What I am specifically trying to explain to you is that is their direct intention, by way of a cynical mechanism of control.

    Do what you can do, control what you can control. If it causes one person to have pause to think, and waver from reverting their cross back to the box of evil, in the face of the lies, propaganda, and marketed self interest that is being lined up on the tracks, it's worth making. IMV.

  • 23 Aug 2023, 12:32 a.m.
  • 23 Aug 2023, 12:44 a.m.

    Fair enough, it certainly doesn't do any harm, Talkback has over the years given me cause to reassess and at times change the way I see some things in the world, and what if anything I do about them.

    Not sure Mason Greenwood's continued employment is a hill I would particularly choose upon which to make a stand though.

  • 23 Aug 2023, 12:51 a.m.

    Nor me. My point is that there's much bigger fish that we should be targeting with batter and a hot crispy finish. Don't take the invitation to be distracted, and think that you've done any sort of useful service to society by joining the sort of mob that will march on paediatricians.

    To be really free. To truly embrace freedom (within the constraints of societies values), is really hard. To actually receive it, you have to extend it to others. Quite often in circumstances where your every instinct is to not want to.

  • 23 Aug 2023, 1:02 a.m.

    Well, OK but I don't think anyone here is doing that. No one bats an eyelid at, say, a bank firing a member of staff because they get caught in possession of pictures of young boys, and unless said individual changes their name and their appearance and everything else about themselves, purges all acknowledgement of that identity's existence and starts afresh with a new one, they're not getting employed by any other bank or halfway joined up corporate organisation ever again. Now make that bank worker a footballer and those pictures of naked children pictures of a beaten up woman and you're in a not dissimilar place, except it's rather harder for a Premier League footballer to simply shed their identity and start again in the hope that no one will ever recognise him. Hell, it's apparently pretty difficult for a bank worker to do that.

    Other clubs not wanting to sign Greenwood isn't an incorrect move on their parts, because they have to consider the position of their fans. And if you're saying that the fans shouldn't have that position because he hasn't been found guilty, then you're asking people to slavishly kowtow to the absolute correctness of the legal system which is a somewhat illogical position. So if we accept that the legal system is fallible, then the only way to get what you seem to want is to stop putting footballers in the news.

    You might be better off commanding the tide not to come in, Your Majesty.